definition

After 6 months of up in the air, what's the definition, and where are we now pondering, I finally have a clear definition.  What a relief!!! You never know exactly how much energy and time is spent on trying to figure out what something is based on the idea of what it could be.  Well... I must stay, defining is a pretty easy way to clear up any assumptions, false interpretations, or just plain confusion.  I will say it's bittersweet, and Erin can very easily say I told you so, but hey the hardest lessons are the most fun to learn!!